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Valentine's Day

12/2/2022

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From Jon Owen – Pastor at Wayside Chapel (Kings Cross and Bondi, Sydney, NSW)
“Love that comes with an orchestra playing sweetly in the background isn’t the only kind. It would be false to state that love has nothing to do with feelings; that would be ridiculous, but I insist that love is not constituted by them. Feelings change constantly; some are helpful, many are uncomfortable; some bring ecstasy; and none constitute love. At most they provide a musical score; they add colour. Love is something into which we step. It requires a movement of the feet. It is a place to stand and see another for who they are and not for the purpose they might serve. I wish for you the kind of courage and strength to stand where you can see another. Where you can be fully you, by not being the centre of the universe but rather to discover that your centre is not within. The joy of finding your centre between you and others – that’s how love works.

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I see love come to life in a thousand different ways. Love is everywhere and is always in need of us. If we allow it to flow, it can release us from our need to prove anything. 
I have seen it in parents who give up every life plan to care for a child with a disability, somebody who tenderly supports their partner through mental illness, a friend who gives up their only meal for someone hungrier than them, or a neighbour who takes time out of their hectic life to drop a care package to the person next door.

Rather than a pursuit of a feeling, love is about devoting a life to courageous acts of service that usher more kindness into our world, especially in the darkest of circumstances.

Small acts of love often mean the world. Cups of tea handed out in love, fresh towels after a night in the pouring rain, or a set of clean clothes and undies when someone walks in drenched to the bone.
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Think about what love means to you. This Valentine’s Day, perhaps you can forgo the flowers and chocolates, in favour of an act of love that will truly make a difference to someone's life. If you can, please make a donation to our "Nothing Says I Love you Like a Clean Pair of Undies" appeal”…


Click the link:  Wayside Chapel | Love Over Hate
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"Such a February Face"

1/2/2022

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​The only Shakespeare play to mention the month of February is in Much Ado About Nothing and one of the main characters, Benedick, is described to have “such a February face, So full of frost, of storm and cloudiness.” 
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Kate's 50th Birthday

31/1/2022

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For the first time since Christmas 2018 (or so Paul and I think) we managed to get-together as a whole family yesterday (30th January).  Well, whole in so far as Kate was not with us, but we were gathered together to celebrate what would have been her 50th birthday (on 26th January).  I cannot believe she is no longer here, and I am often on the brink of picking up the phone to have a chat, or to send a text message or email and then recall that it is not possible. 

Alison has compiled a Photo Book for Violet and Clementine and many of the photos had not been seen for a while - if at all.  Over the past few months Alison and I had met up with or made contact with, some of Kate's friends who also provided photographs and these are a good testament to the vagaries of 1980's fashion!!

Kate would have enjoyed the Afternoon Tea that Violet produced, ​the exotic lemon and raspberry sponge-cake that Alison baked and the champagne that was quaffed by everyone!  Kate would have particularly approved of the latter as - poignantly – it was a bottle of Moet and Chandon champagne that she had given to me for my 50th birthday!  
Happy Birthday Kate!  We all love and miss you so much. xxx
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Isolation - and Beyond!

27/1/2022

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I been in isolation for the past ten days following a positive PCR test.  A couple of days proved to be somewhat aggravating but I think that was because I was extremely tired and the weather was grey, cold and far too January-like (funny that.

However, on the whole I quite enjoy the freedom - contrary maybe - that enforced isolation offers!  There is no obligation to drive anywhere, do anything or meet anyone.  I am not saying this is a state of affairs that would appeal permanently, but it has been a relief in some regard.

Anyway, with all the various NHS notifications and directives I managed to sign myself up for "antibody testing" which was quite a thing - just in case you haven't come across it. To be honest, I wasn't sure what was happening - but hey.  A testing kit was sent in the post and basically, by wielding a pretty sever lancet on my ring finger, I had to produce a small phial of blood and send it off in a pre-organised, pre-paid box for analysis.  Just 24 hours later I received the following information (below)- which was surprising:
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2021 - Nonetheless!

31/12/2021

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It will be another quiet new year - which is not necessarily an unwelcome thing now that I am embracing my bah-humbug guise!?!  It has been an odd week insofar as many of our plans were abandoned due to positive PCR / LFT tests.  I think the current isolation period finishes on Tuesday - just in time for the kids to go back to school.  Typical!  However, we managed to meet up separately and celebrate nonetheless.
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** (right) The dog and Christmas tree is nothing to do with us!  It just makes me laugh.
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Moving on up... down... sideways?

31/12/2021

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Nice new year resolutions!
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Christmas Carrots

24/12/2021

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Don't worry everyone! 

I have a dug up some carrots and there are plenty for Rudolf, Dancer, Blitzen and the rest of the herd, so they will be full of vitamins A and C, and will display a lot of energy for delivering all the presents this evening.

PHEW!!

You're welcome!

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All Change!

24/12/2021

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It has been a l-o-n-g couple of weeks with a few ups and downs.  I shan't go into it all but suffice to say, I have had little time to reply to a number of messages and texts so I do apologise for my tardiness.

For example, recently it has been a combination of travelling between Manchester and Romsey on separate occasions, sorting out furniture collections / removals,  attending a few full-on induction days for a new school job, and a MAD last day of term with another primary school, as well as the normal run-up-to-Christmas nonsense.

My eldest niece flew back from Kazakhstan last weekend and is being the hostess-with-the-mostess for some of the family for Christmas Day – including me and Paul.  However, other events have been cancelled or postponed because the other branch of the family are currently keeping the PCR clinics busy, and three individuals have tested positive.  This is such a shame as they had plans to spend Christmas in Cornwall but that has to be abandoned.  We are also postponing our whole family get-together (scheduled for the 30th) as it falls within the recommended isolation period. We were also hoping to experience the Festival of Lights at Sudeley Castle but, again, that had to be cancelled. 
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Paul has been working throughout, looking after the Enchanted Lights Trail at Cotswolds Farm Park (check out his handiwork).  The Trail has proved to be popular, and I hope to go next week…. restrictions allowing!
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Everyone – we need to be philosophical.  It is wasted energy to get riled.  Maybe that will be one of my new year's resolutions…?
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Beautiful Cotswolds

16/12/2021

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Advice for Gardeners

12/12/2021

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School Dinners

11/12/2021

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​I can’t remember what I have reported regarding the latest news, but my portfolio of job roles now includes another twelve hours work at Andoversford Primary School.  Andoversford (APS) is a small village about ten miles from Cheltenham (on the Oxford Road) and the school roll is just 81 children.  Although the new job starts officially in January, I am covering some ‘induction’ time before the end of term.  
I will generally be covering on a Tuesday (part of the day) and a whole day on a Wednesday.  My other school (Temple Guiting – “TG”) is usually a full Friday.  The schools are of a similar size but are as different as chalk and cheese by way of management and administrative structure.  
But kids are the same wherever you are in the world! 
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Yesterday at TG we enjoyed our Christmas Lunch and, of course, it was absolute carnage!  Noisy with a large dose of high excitement to complement the Christmas crackers, poppers, paper-hats and jumpers!  Afterwards, in the playground, one small child quizzed me as to “why are you shaking that tree?”. He did seem perturbed.
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​I gently explained that I was, in fact, attempting to straighten it up as it was very lop-sided, in danger of falling down and losing all its decorations and baubles.  To which he looked at me askance, rolled his eyes and nonchalantly walked on…  
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​Later in the afternoon and after my colleague (the School Business Manager) had left for the day, another small boy came into the office to collect some material off the printer / photocopier.  Without ceremony he barged into the office, looked at me and said with a suitable amount of awe “Mrs Green, are you pretending to be Mrs Jameson?”.  To which I replied, “Well, Henry, I am pretending that I actually know what I am doing”, and he nodded in agreement, picked up his paperwork and left the room, seemingly satisfied.   So, that told me!
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Jobs In November

28/11/2021

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Freshly dug-over - and a frequent yet shy feline visitor.
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28 Nov 2021: Bright sunshine - but chilly!
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Moving on from working-for-money jobs I have had a fairly productive week in the both garden and greenhouse despite the colder weather - and snow surprise of yesterday.

Making the most of this morning's sunshine I harvested the remaining leeks and dug up more carrots to accompany our Sunday roast.  The soil was icily crunchy but once broken was fairly easy to dig-over.  Well, I say that, but having decided to "prepare" the whole veg patch it proved to be a decent work-out and I was soon  removing the various clothing layers and glowing nicely!  Digging over can be pretty exhausting but one way of feeling virtuous too! 
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Leeks and Carrots for Lunch
According to all the allotment advice (books and on-line) it's the time for preparing the soil (tick!), collecting fallen leaves (tick!), checking compost bins (tick.... very full!), clean cloches and cold frames (vaguely-ish) and optimistically sow:
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  • Garlic
  • Broad Beans
  • Carrots
  • Peas
​​Tick, Tick, Tick... but surprised by the last two, so might do that this coming week - in trays under glass. just like the fine display of own-seed lupins and hollyhocks coming along nicely, and (packet bought) sweet-peas and love-in-a-mist (re-potted from seedlings given to me by a neighbour). 

​It all looks marvellous!
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Lupins, hollyhocks, sweet-peas...
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Magic Number?

26/11/2021

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The past few weeks have been full of annual diabetic screening and medical checks, including eye tests at the hospital, and general dental treatment.  Thankfully it is all out of the way now, with the next check-up and tooth polish in six months’ time.    But to be honest, I have been feeling a bit low or up-and-down recently.  I’m not sure that I can pinpoint exact reasons, but probably a whole combination of stuff.  
People, generally, are irritating me…  And not even specifically!  I feel quite harassed by everybody – even when they’re not actually, in reality, making too many demands.  Maybe it is because a lot is coming from several directions?  

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Thankfully my work stuff is all up to date … and that is a good thing because as from the beginning of December I shall be employed in SEVEN different job roles!  Yep – quite a plump portfolio!

In the past two weeks I have been offered two more jobs – another very part-time Clerk to the Governor’s at a very small Primary School in a tiny village called Withington.  There are 46 pupils between Reception and Year 6, and approximately 15 pre-schoolers.  The thing is, I think the contract is only for approximately a month pro rata over the academic year and it might be more trouble than it’s worth… but I am being asked  to apply for these roles and you never know where things might go.  For example, today I was offered another Administrative Assistant role at one of ‘my’ other schools.  It is for 12 hours per week and would complement the other school office job (on Fridays) and basically, what I ‘lost’ by leaving Bredon School because of the travel / inflexible approach, will now be covered in two-and-a-half days with a lot less travel.  
Having said that, by the beginning of 2022 it will have levelled out somewhat as I am ‘losing’ one Clerk role – as two schools are merging and as such, so are the governing boards.  I knew this would be the case and, in all honesty, it has been a more problematic scenario linked to educational inspections, special measures, leadership and management evaluations. It was a positive ‘learning curve’ but I’m quite pleased that I can draw a line under it soon.
 
So, what else?  Well, from the sublime to the ridiculous (as is often the case).

Paul has been working long hours at  the Malvern / Three Counties Showground where he has  been setting up the ‘Winter Glow’ event – have a look:
  • WinterGlow and 
  • Winter Glow - website .
However, for the next month or so his main work will be at *Adam Henson’s Cotswold Farm Park and is ‘in charge’ of the (click links) Enchanted Light Trail and Enchanted.  This is quite a nice gig insofar as it probably won’t start until 2pm, finishing mid-evening and is only 10 miles (maximum) from Winchcombe – via country roads and lanes, so not much traffic - except for the odd tractor and stupid gamebirds running amok!  Naturally Paul will have to work over Christmas (not Christmas Day itself) but he is used to that because of operating on Panto throughout his varied theatrical career!  Thankfully this Farm Park Light Trail is “locked in” because there has been only very limited work offered from the Everyman Theatre and its production of Jack and The Beanstalk this year.  Phew!
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*Adam Henson is possibly the best-known farmer in the UK, presenting on BBC’s Countryfile  programme each Sunday evening
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Family Stuff

21/11/2021

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As usual, nothing happens for ages and then there is a glut of birthdays and visits!

My niece Violet was back in the UK for a couple of weeks and this coincided with Terri's birthday so we enjoyed a family get-together for Sunday lunch at my sister's home.  Violet flew back to Kazakhstan last weekend but she will be back for Christmas... well, I hope so, as the plan is that Paul and I will be enjoying all the festival fayre at her house!?

As food seems to play such an important role in our lives, we also celebrated my nephew's 15th birthday at our favourite The River Avon Chinese Restaurant in Evesham (again). 
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Revolutionary Gardening

18/11/2021

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Remembering Kate

13/11/2021

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Today, my niece and her friend, added this pretty heart to the National Covid Memorial Wall in London.    

I think it sums up how we all feel, all the time,

The Memorial Wall consists of a public mural painted by volunteers to commemorate victims of the COVID-19 pandemic.  The wall stretches more than a third of a mile along the South Bank of the River Thames, opposite the Palace of Westminster,  It is an unauthorised mural but it is hoped that it will become a permanent memorial.

It is in keeping with remembrance services and events throughout the UK over the weekend, 
 
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Me; currently

9/11/2021

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STARS!

30/10/2021

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What a fabulous afternoon!  Today, I met up with some friends from Sixth Form... so more than 30-odd years ago.  How scary is that? We have met up in the interim but not for a while.  We tried to get together last year but lockdown got in the way.    However, it was like we had only been together a few weeks ago... naturally we only covered a miniscule of the past few years and therefore are planning a weekend away for a carry-on-catch-up!
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"Words are easy, like the wind; Faithful friends are hard to find".
by Shakespeare - possibly.!
This was first published in a collection of poems entitled  The Passionate Pilgrim by William Jaggard in 1599 and is commonly attributed to the Bard.
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Goodbye to Cornwall

19/10/2021

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What happened?!

This is a photo from the last evening in Cornwall (wine from a place we frequented in the Hunter Valley when we lived in NSW and now on offer in the supermarket!), and this must have been another dimension because it has hardly got light since coming back to the Cotswolds!

I think Autumn has definitely arrived. Hmmm.
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Simples!

15/10/2021

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​In the USA, October 2021 is Emotional Wellness Month.  As life has been increasingly uncertain and stressful over the past eighteen months it’s important to attempt to maintain a sense of calm and balance. 
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Despite adding this to a Blog, it’s advisable to disconnect from reliance on various ‘devices’ and focus on face-to-face relationships.  
Whilst the word is bandied about like a well-worn sock perhaps consider the benefits of Mindfulness, a simple Eastern meditation practice engaging in the present and focusing on acceptance and non-judgmental thoughts.   Common sense prevails and encourages taking time to eat healthily, drink less alcohol, get more exercise,  breathe deeply and set time aside for activities that make you happy.  Simples!

Here is a list of what has been making me happy over the past few weeks:
Sorting out the garden and greenhouses; things to do in the autumn:
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  • Prune, lift and divide plants and flowers.
  • Cut back faded perennials to add to compost
  • Keep leaves off plants : ensure fallen leaves do not lie on the exposed crowns of plants as this will cause them to rot, especially in a damp autumn.
  • Plants bulbs throughout September and October whilst the soil is still warm
  • Raise patio pots on bricks to avoid them sitting in water throughout autumn
  • Remove stakes and other supports on plants that have died down for winter.
  • Lift vegetables such as beetroot and carrots and store in a cool dark shed in a box of dry potting compost.
  • Trim lavender by cutting off just the dead flowering stems – either with secateurs or hand shears. Do not cut the stems with leaves as they will be susceptible to frost – leave this to the spring instead.
  • October is a good time of year to plant new climbing roses
  • Make a mini cloche as these will keep the soil warm and provide protection and therefore can extend the growing season by many weeks.

REMEMBER - don’t be too tidy! 
  • Plant wildlife friendly plants - shrubs and climbers that bear fruit and seeds will keep the birds going throughout the year  as well as providing shelter to a whole host of wildlife.
  • Undergrowth, leaf litter and log piles provide diverse habitats for hedgehogs, toads, frogs and insects.
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South By South-West

15/10/2021

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The past couple of months have been a busy time again but Paul and I are currently in the fortunate position of being able to chill-out in Cornwall – courtesy of friends who have asked us to stay in their [being] renovated coastal house and report back on the place as a future holiday rental property.  Oh well… twist our arms, we’ll give it a go!?

It hasn’t been too much of a hardship and it has been helped significantly by the unbelievable weather… all week sunshine and minimum daily temperatures of 18 degrees.  The average temperature is usually 14 degrees apparently, so we have been very lucky.

So, we are presently enjoying Cornwall but have spent a lot of time trekking up and down the country between Hampshire and Gloucestershire whilst trying to organise my mother-in-law’s house sale and move to a residential home. I shan’t go into all the details because the navigation through medical, social services, legal, estate agents, and financial channels is bureaucratic headache of the first degree. And, you know how that winds me up at the best of times?*!  As a quick example, Paul recently had to reply to the solicitor who had asked for a copy of his Power of Attorney… saying that perhaps they should check their own records because they had drawn it up originally 15 years ago, and again within the past two months.  Hmm… so if we have to do the work for them, can I have a refund on the initial £90.00 fee?? Outrageous.

So, that is the logistics of the above has been the main focus but in the closer periphery the new academic year has kicked off with a vengeance and I've got statutory requirements, policy guidelines and declarations of all and sundry coming at me from all directions! I have also started my new one-day-a-week on site at Temple Guiting Primary School and that's a bit of a learning curve.... although the curve is a gentle one because there's only so much that can be achieved in 8 hours a week, and with a six days gap between attendance! I'm still getting my head round the smallness of the Reception class... that's both in individual height as well as general numbers!?* Although some of the general character and capacity for volume is not necessarily thwarted by a diminutive stature?!I

I have been lucky enough to be able to swap my working day and therefore can enjoy a whole week away.  As you have already seen, we spent some time at St Michaels’ Mount (fabulous), have wandered in and out of Porthleven itself and walked a very short stretch of the Loe Bar coastal path but otherwise have read, snoozed and quaffed wine! 

Nice!

The photographs are intended to make you jealous!  The house is like something out of a film or magazine, and it wouldn’t be entirely surprising to stumble across James Bond or a Cary Grant character gazing across the sea-view whilst contemplating whether to go out on the yacht…
However, my photos are carefully selected views - avoiding the scaffolding and the team of ten builders and painters who all rocked up at 8am this morning! 
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Cornish Summer...!

13/10/2021

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You would be forgiven if you thought this was a photo of the Mediterranean, but it is St Michael's Mount in Cornwall,  In October!  ​What a fabulous day to visit this amazing place. 
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There Be Giants

13/10/2021

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Image from VegasMike Digital Art and Myth Beasts
In Cornwall there is a small island, called St Michael’s Mount; it is only accessible on foot at low tide. At high tide, you can only get there by boat. St Michael’s Mount is extremely steep and rocky, with a small harbour, village, and a castle at the top of the hill. Some say that the Mount was made by a giant called Cormoran who was reputed to be 18 ft tall and measured about 9 ft around the waist.
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Cormoran lived in the forest with his wife, Cormelian. One day Cormoran said to her: ‘I want to build a stronghold out of granite’ but she suggested that they collected green stone which was both lighter and in closer proximity.  Cormoran, however, did not think that green stone would be good enough for his stronghold.


After two weeks of work with hardly any progress Cormelian decided to secretly sme of the green stone under the granite in her aprons o that her husband would not notice. However, one day Cormoran did notice and angrily instructed his wife to return the green stone to the mainland.  On her way back down the causeway, the apron strings snapped and the green stone tumbled to the ground and Cormelian decided to leave the stone there. The pile of green stone is now called Chapel Rock and the ferry sails from this point to go to St Michael’s Mount at high tide.

Eventually, Cormelian and Cormoran finished the stronghold, which towered high above them.  Upon seeing the Mount the villagers cried: ‘Who will stop this giant? None of our cows or sheep will be safe now that Cormoran can take them to his stronghold! We’ll starve!’

Jack, a local boy, was fed up with the bad-tempered giant stealing his livestock. He decided to act. One night, he crept out and set a trap to teach the giant a lesson; he dug an enormous pit near the causeway and covered it up with straw and branches to hide it.

When it was ready, Jack walked up to the front of St Michael’s Mount and blew his horn.  Outraged at being woken up stormed out of his stronghold and chased after Jack who was taunting him.  Jack sped along the causeway and when the big clumsy giant couldn’t stop in time, he fell down the pit.  Jack walked to edge of the pit and peered down. ‘I hope this will teach you a lesson!’ he said. ‘Giants shouldn’t steal our livestock!’
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Cormoran was killed by a blow from a pickaxe or mattock. After filling in the hole, Jack retrieved the giant's treasure.  A rock was placed on the burial site and this rock is called Giant's Grave. 
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My Life on a Plate

12/10/2021

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FALLING

12/10/2021

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Poem by Brian Bilston

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